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When I follow my intuition, I will not make poor decisions or choices
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"I know that I once believed that following my dream meant happily ever after.
Here's what Carla Blazek, creator of had to say about living her dream and the potholes she's fallen into along the way:
Falling in love with our work is like falling in love with a person. At first our world revolves around our beloved work. We eat, sleep, and breathe our work; talk about it incessantly. It is the answer to our prayers! We feel so alive,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]! How did we ever live without this?
Here is a juicy and liberating idea I'm meditating on these days: What if, instead of thinking I'm wrong, off track, or screwing up when I'm uncertain, afraid, lost, don't know what to do next or aren't enjoying some aspect of living my dream, I held the interpretation that I am moving to a new level of development, that I am at my learning edge and the learning edge is never comfortable. I'm not screwed up, I'm evolving! Just think back to a time before you learned something significant. Were you feeling all light and happy and comfortable? Or edgy, irritable, uncertain, worried, fretful?
What if losing our way is a good sign? (Now, I don't believe it always is and next time I'll share guidelines for discerning when lost is good and when lost is a swim in the ole' river Denial or about biological or cognitive disconnects.)

WELL:
I will always feel passionate about what I do
Can I tell you, frankly, how sick I am of the story that because we do what we love, we should always be jubilant, light hearted,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], blissed out, can't-wait-to-get-out-of-bed every-bloody-morning happy and content? Have you ever fell into this belief?
What a disservice this myth does to women like you and me and the two glistening creative souls quoted below--Carla Blazek and Kirsten Oppe.
Here is my claim: you can do what you love, for a living or a part-time living or simply because you love it, and you will still suffer. You can do what you love and you will still hit the same rough spots, doubts, and dark nights of the soul that you would if you weren't doing what you love, they will just be different ones! I would even go so far as to claim that those of us who are living our dreams are more susceptible to doubt and dark nights because we are more aware and often, by listening and pursuing our passions, we increase our overall evolution--which can certainly increase our dissonance and discomfort! I would also add that if we think we won't have days in which we hate our dream, we are declaring we won't continue to evolve, because life conditions are what help us change and grow.
Years ago, on Oprah, there was a woman who had followed her dream of making elaborate handmade dolls. Sitting in her beautiful antique-filled studio surrounded by mountains of lush gorgeous fabrics, with a look of serenity and bliss on her face, she said she was so in love with her work that 'every day was like Christmas morning.'

For years, I carried that metaphor as my idea of what following my dream should feel like [Jennifer's note: notice the word should, always a dead giveaway we are pushing ourselves out of our center and toward the outside world's dictates]. I believed that if I, too, was skipping along my Divine path of expression and creativity, there would be no hardships, no fear, no struggles. If I was doing it right (whatever that means!), my days would be filled with vivid inspiration,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], crystal clear decision-making, fantastic feelings 'round the clock and a big fat bankbook to boot.
Now I know this serene dollmaker was either fibbing -- to herself or to Oprah's producers -- or she'd been in business less than a year and was still in the honeymoon phase.
Moving through disillusionment has been a natural cycle in my relationship with my company zena moon. Some of my illusions lost so far include: